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Weddings are like festivals. In fact, often they're even grander. It’s crowded, chaotic but still cheerful and happy. Despite all the meticulous planning and organising, there is positivity all around. But amid all this positivity some people who ruin it with comments that are not only mean but very hurtful. Although some things that are said might mean well but they often end up sounding crass and frivolous.



On the most important day for a girl and boy, don’t you think it’s impolite to pass hurtful comments? Imagine yourself in their shoes! To help you avoid being that discourteous person even by mistake, here are 15 things you should never say at weddings:

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1. “Wow, now that you are getting hitched, when will you have a baby?”



I mean, come on! Whatever happened to living one day at a time? As it is, it’s a big step for the guy and the girl to agree to spend the rest of their lives with each other. Without having spent even a single day post marriage, don’t you think the ‘baby’ question comes a tad soon? Give them a break! We know you mean well, but leave it to them to do all the family planning.

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2. “How much did you spend on this wedding?”



Okay, first things first, asking this question is a sin! Not only is this rude, it’s also unnecessary because nobody can tell you the exact amount spent. Especially not on the wedding day itself! Cut them some slack, and even if you just have to, wait a few days post the wedding.

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3. “The catered food is so bad. I think I’m gonna go home and eat”



Even if the food is bad, you don’t have to be so vocal about it. Many times the catered food isn’t up to your expectations, but can’t you be a bigger person and let it go even if you don’t like it? There’s always takeout or good ole’ Maggi at home. Bad food is not the end of the world! Okay it is, but courtesy is more important, fellas!

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4. “These people didn’t invite the groom’s cousin brother’s daughter’s son”



So what if XYZ person didn’t make the cut? You did, so why can’t you leave it at that? In fact, how can you be so sure that it was that particular individual’s choice to not attend the wedding? The list of probable answers can be endless. It’s better to seal those lips and enjoy yourself with the people who made it to the wedding.

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5. “The DJ is playing such crappy music. Must be a cheap one that’s why”



Weddings and cost-cutting go hand in hand. Some people try to save cost on food while others do it in décor or music. It’s natural. Instead of concentrating on the music, enjoy the people who are giving you company on the dance floor. You’ll forget about the music and enjoy yourself more with the people once you don’t pay attention to it.


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