Welcome, Guest. Please login or register.

Login with username, password and session length




May 16, 2024, 03:48:47 AM
Funfani.com - Spreading Fun All Over!INFORMATION CLUBInformative ZoneLove and Dating Tips for online dating
« previous next »
Pages: [1] 2   Go Down
Print
Author Topic: Tips for online dating  (Read 9868 times)
0 Members and 1 Guest are viewing this topic.
Ryan Martis
FF Hero
*****

Karma: 86
Offline Offline

Gender: Male
Posts: 38649
« on: July 10, 2009, 04:51:19 AM »


"Long walks on the beach, a passion for music and movies" just isn't going to cut it anymore in the rough and tumble world of online dating.

Struggling at finding love on the Web? Start by blaming your online dating profile, which may contain out-of-date photos, bland descriptions, or one too many white lies. Correcting these common mistakes should go a long way toward avoiding another Valentine's Day alone.
« Last Edit: August 04, 2009, 04:03:38 AM by Khushi » Report to moderator   Logged
Ryan Martis
FF Hero
*****

Karma: 86
Offline Offline

Gender: Male
Posts: 38649
« Reply #1 on: July 10, 2009, 04:51:45 AM »
Is your profile right?

"Look around; you tell me -- how good are profiles these days," said Evan Marc Katz, dating expert and author of "I Can't Believe I'm Buying This Book: A Commonsense Guide to Successful Internet Dating." Katz has written some 500 profiles for clients on his online profile writing service, E-Cyrano.

"People, after years of doing this, they've gotten the message that they've got to do better," he said. "But most people don't know what that means."

Just ask Mark Sweeney how the wrong profile can doom dating. Sweeney, 49, a gay retired mental help aid in upstate New York who bought his first computer last year on friends' recommendations, had been out of the dating scene for seven years. When he first put up his dating profile, he suffered through a number of bad experiences and mismatches. "People were just looking to regularly exchange with as many people as they can," he said. "They were just perverts."

Sweeney later joined Match.com, which helped him polish his image. "They can help put into words if you're not a good writer." He said his new and improved profile helped him land a date 3-1/2 months ago with Joe, who lived 30 minutes away.
Report to moderator   Logged
Ryan Martis
FF Hero
*****

Karma: 86
Offline Offline

Gender: Male
Posts: 38649
« Reply #2 on: July 10, 2009, 04:52:05 AM »
Get the right user name

Try to be different. Remember, if you're alone, you're in good company.

"There's a lot of people looking for love; they don't know what they don't know," Katz said. Avoid being one of them. Here are few tips to start with.

The profile sprucing begins with the very first line -- your user name. Make it pop, advises Gail Laguna, spokeswoman for Spark Networks, owner of sites including JDate.com, ChristianMingle.com and BlackSingles.com.

Forego generic abbreviations of your name such as JSmith101. Laguna suggested something more expressive, like Live2Laugh or WhiteWaterWarrior.
Report to moderator   Logged
Ryan Martis
FF Hero
*****

Karma: 86
Offline Offline

Gender: Male
Posts: 38649
« Reply #3 on: July 10, 2009, 04:52:26 AM »
Be specific

Experts also suggest that you try to be more specific in your profile. Anyone can say they love candle-lit dinners and sunsets, said Janet Siroto, editorial director of Match.com, a division of IAC/InterActiveCorp.

"Try to replace them with things that are more specific or unique to you," she said. "If you're a great vegetable gardener, not everyone can say that. You like bluegrass music on weekends, share that."
Report to moderator   Logged
Ryan Martis
FF Hero
*****

Karma: 86
Offline Offline

Gender: Male
Posts: 38649
« Reply #4 on: July 10, 2009, 04:52:50 AM »
Pics tell a lot

Another pet peeve among experts: Don't bother telling prospective companions how gorgeous or fit you are. Show them with photos, which leads to the next point.

Lose the seventies get-up. If your main photo makes you look like an extra on the film "Boogie Nights" or was shot more than 12 months ago, it's too old.

Old photos, in fact, are the No. 1 shortcoming of profiles. "Photos that are old or if you're wearing an outfit you had in the 1970s, the one where you're on the dance floor. That's probably the biggest complaint," Laguna said.
Report to moderator   Logged
Ryan Martis
FF Hero
*****

Karma: 86
Offline Offline

Gender: Male
Posts: 38649
« Reply #5 on: July 13, 2009, 12:36:03 AM »
Don't be negative

Another piece of advice is to drop the bad vibes. Most people know exactly what they are not seeking, but pointing that out repels potential dates.

Instead of saying certain types need not apply -- an alcoholic who can't pay his bills, say, or old men under five-feet -- tell people what you are looking for, Katz said. "Your job is not to stop the wrong people from writing to you but attracting the right people."
Report to moderator   Logged
Pages: [1] 2   Go Up
Print
« previous next »

Jump to: