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[Adolph Archer]

7. How bad are your fights?

Are your arguments and squabbles ended with peaceful and constructive solutions? If not, they will only get worse after the wedding. You wouldn't want to spend your honeymoon in two opposite ends of the room.

[Adolph Archer]

8. Are you willing to put him before yourself?

Marriage means the kingpin of your world is not just yours anymore. You have to share it with him and his immediate family. Urrrr.... whutt?

Being able to sacrifice for others is probably the hardest thing in this world. Not being able to is not a bad thing, it gives to an opportunity to rethink your decision to marry and strengthen your love.

[Adolph Archer]

9. You said yes. Wishing you thought it through first?

Don't worry about insecurities that are in your head, this always happens you get married. Pre-wedding jitters make you say "Oh my god I'm terrified" (in Hindi or something of that sort) but if your only thought is "this doesn't feel right", it's probably the best to raise the white flag before shit gets serious.

[Adolph Archer]

10. Will he support your dreams?

Marriage is not a union of suppressing a woman's freedom and surely it's not the end of your aspirations. If this is not what your man thinks, perhaps your dreams matter more. Go get that PhD you always wanted or travel the world!