Lengthy but a good read.
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7 Magic Words to Happiness
- By Ted Nicholas

There is a definite link between happiness and success in this sense.  The happier you are, the more successful you are likely to be.  In this issue of The Success Margin I will further clarify this point.

Are you ready to accept the greatest gift I or perhaps anyone else has ever given you?

Today, dear reader, I'm going to offer you some magic words that have the power to change your life.  I know that's an incredible promise.  And if you are skeptical, I wouldn't blame you.  But I can assure you the magic words I will give you, if used, will bring you a lifetime of happiness.  And nothing less!

First, a brief background.

As long as I can remember I've been intrigued by the mystery of how to achieve happiness. Some would even say I've been obsessed by it.  Why?  I have always wanted to become a happy, positive person myself.

What intrigued me was this simple observation. Nearly everyone I've ever met, including my friends and family, is sad and unhappy most all the time.  Indeed, the most popular conversation amongst all people I've been with consists of complaints and negativity about life.

Think about your own life.  I'd bet the truly happy people you could point to are few and far between.  If you've known more than a handful of such people, I feel you have been truly blessed.


Individuals who are happy, optimistic, positive and self-confident are definitely the rarest of humans.

Does happiness come from achievements?  Or special events in life?

Clearly, happiness does not come from business success.  Material possessions.  A certain amount of money in the bank.  A terrific family.  Or even a super romantic relationship.

I know millionaires and billionaires with every blessing imaginable who are depressed and unhappy.  And a few individuals who have almost nothing resembling the above who are happy, content, and optimistic.

You can be miserable in a huge mansion.  And happy in a modest apartment.

What, then, is the secret to happiness?

I've pursued my own happiness with diligence.

I'm going to reveal the most important lessons I've learned.

I submit that all happiness is a result of our self-talk.  Our internal dialogue is the key.
It's all in the words we use.

It matters not what happens to us in life, but in the words we use silently to "frame" it in our minds.

Our emotional state--happiness, depression, anger, joy, etc.--follows from the words we use with ourselves.

The subconscious mind, which is many times more powerful than our conscious mind, gives off signals which are translated into human emotions.

You may have read the profound poem which illustrates this point so well:

"Two men looked through prison bars.  One saw the night, and one saw the stars."

We humans can be happy even in a prison, or in poverty, if we learn how to talk to our subconscious.

Think for a moment about the incredible implications.

Of course, I'm not alone in discovering the amazing power of the silent words we use in our self-talk.

Numerous studies have been made which link self-talk with not only our emotions.  But also with measurable physiological effects in our bodies.  Your heart rate, blood pressure, muscle tension and level of stress are all impacted, or even controlled by, your self-talk.

Meditation based upon self-talk and its effects on the body has undergone years of study.  So has the effects of self-hypnosis, also based on the impact of words upon us.

Neuro-Linguistic Programming has shown us many of the effects of positive self-talk as well as the important role of physiology on our emotional state.

So, while you might rightfully expect this scribbler to discuss marketing and copywriting on these pages, I can tell you this.

The most important copy you will ever write is that which you create and print each day on your own subconscious.
 
The words you say silently to yourself as well as out loud to others result in all your emotions.

I'm going to present you with new alternatives. New magic words.  And other tips which I use in my own life.

The most powerful phrase I've ever used I happened to hear a few months ago on the Larry King T.V. program during his interview with the comedienne Carol Burnett.  Carol was talking lovingly about her late daughter Carrie.  And what an inspiration she was, even while suffering from lung and brain cancer.  But she lived each day to the maximum.

She was known for using this seven-word phrase herself and teaching it to all her friends and contacts in their self-talk:

"Today I'm going to love my life."

These words impacted me so much.  I tried them. Then I added them to my own favorite self-talk phrases.

The impact of this very simple phrase has been astonishing.

Try it yourself right now.  Say it silently.  And now say it out loud.

"Today I'm going to love my life."

You will be delighted with how you feel.Especially when you use these words upon rising.

Even if you are experiencing some frustrations,disappointments or even tragedies, as we all do in life, use these words.

You don't even have to believe them when you say them.  Your subconscious will integrate and use them anyway.

Even if you are experiencing, e.g., unemploy-ment, business or financial setbacks, a family crisis, major relationship issues, an IRS audit, a serious disease or even crippling injury, use these 7 magic words.

Trust me.  You'll be surprised, even over-whelmed, with the power of these 7 words.

Once again:

"Today I'm going to love my life"